Hot girls? Guys? Books? Nope. It's nuance. That's right. The sexiest thing is the in-betweens, the shades of gray, the edge cases that break the rules. Nothing is sexier than nuance, and nothing is more boring than absolutism. (And if you see the irony here, all the better.) CW: binaural beats, hypnosis intended to make you aroused by nuance, mentions of the Oxford comma