"I ask you for permission as I wrap the leather cuffs around your wrists. I ask for your permission to tighten the cuffs around your ankles. I ask for your permission to wrap the collar around your neck. Are there any boundaries you want to change before we start. No? So you'll let me dictate how things proceed? Okay. I love you, and I will keep you safe. Now that you're ready, I open the door and allow the other men into the room with us. I give the signal, and they swarm around you like ants on sugar."