I don't refer to the listener's gender or genitals, but I do say stuff like "i need you inside me" and I chant "cum in me" just before I orgasm. It's up to you whether you interpret this as penetrating me with a penis or a strap on. Sorry about the quality, the comination of being so horny I could barely speak, my dildo turning me into a drooling quivering mess in no time, and being face down on my bed meant some parts are less clear than I'd like.