We've been in a long-distance relationship for awhile, and things have been going so well, we've decided to meet in person for the first time - at Christmas. But when we are actually face-to-face, the pressure of a new relationship, the possibility of unmet expectations, and the idea that we might not have the same chemistry in person that we have online becomes a little overwhelming.

This is a new start, a new exploration of our Dom/sub dynamic, one that has been so successful with a screen between us. As we move to the next level, we need reassurance that we're on the same page, and that all we want in this new start is the same thing - each other...