i take a side step to talk about the new wave band ultravox, one of their songs the voice because this time i decided to talk it out instead of text it out and using my voice reminded me of how ultravox talks about the power of the sound vs. the written word...and then it reminds me of a solo song midge ure has because i talk about his group vs. his solo work but for the life of me i can't remember the name of the song or what album it's on.... and i do a side talk about how i contextualize myself and others with a baby girl/little girl essence and a daddy essence and what that means. and then i get to the main point. i was on a message board about some old crusty talking about old guard vs. new guard in bdsm and same tired ass old idea about how littles/babygirls and daddys don't belong in the scene and me fucking gagging over that nonsense that i thought died out but didn't. and me getting into details explaining why it's nonsense. i also brought up why i HATE ddlg to contextualize us because somehow the majority forgot that daddies can also be switches or submissives or slaves too and it just seems very non inclusive. but that's for another day. basically it boils down to a smart way of saying in the highest elevated valley girl voice DO ME ONE FAVOR, DIE ON ME! -RENNI RICCI