So, I have kind of a weird turn on. I get turned on by the idea of making men come in their pants. I think it’s the embarrassment. I love the idea of making men lose control, despite their best efforts. And there’s something so juvenile and inexperienced and even a tiny bit emasculating about forcing a man to make a mess of himself in his pants. (Yes. There are some other options for that, but they aren’t quite my jam.) One of my favorite things to do during sex is to tell a man to definitely NOT come, while doing absolutely everything in my power to make him come and fail. So, this might be just a different take on that.